Unlocking Divorce or Separation Secrets: Horoscope Remedies

Unlocking Divorce or Separation Secrets: Horoscope Remedies – Ultimate Guide To Yoga Prediction as per your Kundli or Birth Chart in Vedic Astrology: With more than 15 years of devoted experience in astrology, I often face a recurring question from people seeking marital advice: Why do some marriages end in divorce? When couples approach me for relationship mending, it becomes a multifaceted challenge.

Marriage is like a strong bond between two people, and it needs something called “compatibility” to work well. Compatibility means how well two people fit together. If couples understand how compatible they are before they decide to get married, the chances of divorce can go down. It’s strange that some relationships that start happily later end in divorce.

This happens because people sometimes ignore or forget about the things that make them compatible. This can happen by accident, when people don’t know better, or on purpose when they choose to ignore important things.

Planetary Combination	Effect on Marriage
The 7th Lord in the 6th house or 8th house	Leads to separation.
Ruling planets of the 6th or 8th house in the 7th house, with the 7th Lord	Affects married life, especially if aspected by a malefic planet and lacks a benefic aspect.
Mars connected with 1st, 4th, 7th, 8th, or 12th house with another malefic planet	Causes disturbance in married life, potentially leading to divorce/separation.
The 7th lord sitting in the 6th house and aspected by Mars	This may lead to sudden separation.
7th lord sits in the 6th house and aspected by Saturn	Leads to extended court cases and possible divorce.
Marriage during Dasha of planets signifying 6th, 8th, or 12th houses	May result in separation or divorce yoga.
Venus planet under affliction in horoscopes of males, and Mars afflicted in females’ horoscopes	May cause marital problems.
Saturn and Mars aspecting each other in specific houses	Can lead to issues in married life.
Both Saturn and Mars aspecting 7th or 8th house	Cause problems in married life.
Strong Mangal dosh (Kuja Dosha) with Mars placed in specific houses	Leads to issues in married life.
Affliction of 2nd, 6th, 7th, 8th, or 12th houses and their lords	Denotes separation or divorce yoga in the horoscope.

Love can blind us to the potential challenges that marriage brings, as we might believe that the strong bond will shield us from future problems. However, the reality is that marriage introduces new responsibilities and complexities that can catch us off guard. It’s crucial to recognize that dynamics change after marriage.

Before tying the knot, it’s wise to assess compatibility with your partner. Astrology offers insights into this aspect by examining celestial positions. The arrangement of stars and planets in the sky can function like a guide, offering valuable information about how well two individuals fit together.

In Astrology, there are some specific planetary combinations linked to divorce indications in the birth chart.

• The retrograde motion of the Seventh Lord, along with malefic aspects and conjunctions, signals possible conflicts between partners.
• Sustaining a strong marriage involves avoiding impulsive decisions driven by anger and refraining from negative talk or criticism about one’s spouse.
• Malefic planets positioned in the twelfth house can contribute to a lack of intimacy within marriage.

Overcoming this challenge involves comprehending each other’s desires and establishing boundaries.

Cultivating a vibrant and enduring marital bond necessitates attentive care and effective strategies.

Despite lengthy courtships, some couples face divorce within a year of marriage. While mutual divorces are less complicated legally, unilateral decisions can lead to various complexities. In certain cases, one partner might exploit legal leniency for personal gain, raising ethical concerns. Legal norms designed to protect women can sometimes be misused, underscoring the sensitivity of the issue.

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Possible Reasons for Separation or Divorce:

Reasons for divorce can be various but what I have seen through my astrological practice are mostly the ones mentioned below:

Some Common Reasons for Divorce as per Astrology Combinations
Seventh Lord Retrograde with Malefic Aspect: Signifies arguments and bad company. Avoid hasty decisions, gossip, and criticism about your spouse.
Sex-Starved Marriage: Malefic planets in the twelfth house can lead to discontent in sex life. Understand each other’s desires and boundaries to nurture intimacy.
Couples Without Children: Challenges due to infertility. Malefic planets in the fifth house like Ketu and Saturn can contribute.
Seventh Lord in Sixth or Twelfth House: Indicates separation or divorce due to distance or busy careers. Prioritize spending quality time together and communication.
Venus with Rahu or Mars: Extramarital affairs leading to divorce. Embrace change and address issues rather than being stubborn.
Affliction to Jupiter with Rahu or Ketu: Critical and judgmental behavior. Practice open-mindedness and acceptance to avoid negativity.

Let’s discuss this Divorce Prediction Method in more detail and cover some more aspects:

1. Mismatch in sexual behavior or absence of a sexual relationship between the couple after marriage.

In astrology, the influence of planets can shed light on various aspects of our lives, including our desires and tendencies. When it comes to our sexual drive, some planetary combinations can indicate a lower interest in intimacy. Let’s break down this concept in a way that’s easy to understand:

• Neutral Planets and Sex Drive: Planets that are considered neutral or belong to the third gender, when they interact with Mars (representing energy) and Venus (symbolizing sensuality), can contribute to a higher sex drive. These combinations might lead to a stronger interest in physical intimacy.
• Influence of Saturn and Moon: However, when certain planets, especially Saturn (associated with discipline) and Moon (linked to emotions), have a significant connection with each other or specific houses, the result can be the opposite—a decrease in libido. Some situations that might contribute to low sex drive include:
  1. Conjunction of Saturn and Moon in the 4th or 10th house from Mars.
  2. If the lord of the 1st house is Saturn (if you have Capricorn or Aquarius rising) and it’s influenced by Ketu or Mars.
  3. Both Saturn and the 1st house lord are affected by both Mars and Ketu.
  4. Presence of Saturn along with Rahu or Ketu in the 8th house.
  5. Rahu and Saturn are positioned in the 1st house or with the Moon.

2. More than one wife/ husband Yog in Horoscope

• Seventh House Afflictions: Malefic planets or aspects affecting the seventh house could lead to challenges in maintaining stable marriages.
• Rahu and Ketu Influence: These nodes’ presence, especially aligned with Venus or the Moon, might indicate unconventional relationships.
• Venus and Mars Combination: Their placement and aspects can influence attraction to multiple partners or challenges in sustaining one marriage.
• Dual Sign Ascendant: Ascendants ruled by dual signs might imply adaptability and openness to different relationships.
• Lord of Seventh House: Placement and aspects to this planet can shed light on one’s approach to partnerships.
• Presence of Multiple Planets in Seventh House: Multiple planets here can indicate complex marital dynamics.
• Aspect of Malefics on Seventh House: Malefic planet casting aspects might introduce challenges and fluctuations in marriage.

3. Continuation of Premarital Intimate Relationships

Factors Affecting Sensual Desires:

• • Emotional strength and bravery can lead to an inclination towards sensual pleasures.
  • The fifth house, its ruler, and the Moon govern emotions, impacting the ascendant, fifth, and seventh houses.
  • Mars and the third ruler control courage, contributing to passionate tendencies.
• Rahu’s Role in Desires:
  • Rahu, ruler of the twelfth and eighth houses, can interact with Venus, the Moon, ascendant, seventh, and eighth houses.
  • Such connections can trigger desires for carnal pleasures.
  • Rahu, Venus, and the eighth house ruler, in conjunction with emotion and courage, can create a strong hunger for romantic affairs.
  • These desires may defy gender roles, age, or social norms.
• Impact of Jupiter and the Ninth House:
  • Weakness in Jupiter and the ninth house can intensify desires for sensual pleasure.
  • This might lead to extramarital involvements and cause marriage delays.
• Other Astrological Analysis:
  • Examination of planets in the Mooltrikona house and their proximity to the ascendant.
  • Professional assessment of these factors can reveal the causes of pre-marital entanglements.

4. Unable to conceive after marriage

Planetary Combinations for Childlessness:

• Afflictions of the 5th house and its lord can lead to childlessness.
• Jupiter afflicted by Saturn or Rahu may cause childlessness.
• Malefic planets like Rahu and Ketu influencing 5th and 11th houses can result in childlessness.
• Certain planetary positions and conjunctions can contribute to childlessness.

6. After getting a new relationship, forget the first one.

The placement of the Seventh Lord in the sixth house or twelfth house can also denote potential separation or divorce due to different factors such as an absent relationship caused by long distance or two careers that leave little time together. Understanding the message being sent by the planets is essential in order to avoid such detrimental outcomes. Breaking up due to petty motives can be a painful and devastating experience, which can be avoided by working it out with the spouse.

7. Verbal or Physical Abuse Between Partners

Affliction of Jupiter with Rahu or Ketu can give rise to a critical and judgmental attitude; making it increasingly difficult to accept the decisions of one’s partner. For a healthier relationship, it is important to stay open-minded and remain receptive to the changes in your partner.

The union of Mangal and Ketu, too, can bring about difficulties, typically appearing as conflict and also a disconnection from the spiritual and religious beliefs of one’s partner. Fighting, verbal abuse, physical violence, and even expressions of love can sometimes lead to disputes that are representative of this combination.

Factors contributing to a wife’s or husband’s violent and abusive behavior can be deciphered through various astrological elements. The native’s ascendant reflects their body, mind, and habits.

The 6th house indicates enemies, wounds, ill-fame, and anxiety, possibly influencing aggressive tendencies. The 7th house pertains to social status, life partner, and sex relations, playing a role in marital dynamics. The 8th house is linked to litigation, sex relations, and causes of death, potentially influencing intense emotions.

The 12th house signifies subconscious fears, past-life karma, and secret enemies, affecting hidden motivations. The Moon’s placement affects emotional stability and interpersonal weaknesses. Jupiter is the significator of the husband and its positioning may impact his behavior. Venus represents sexual pleasure and relationships, potentially indicating problematic tendencies.

Mars rules over violence and sexual energy, affecting assertiveness. Saturn’s influence could lead to obstruction and insensitivity. Rahu and Ketu introduce fluctuations in temperament and uncontrollable behavior, respectively. A comprehensive understanding of these astrological factors aids in identifying potential sources of an abusive husband’s behavior.

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8. Involvement of in-laws in married life

Astrological factors can shed light on reasons for troubles with in-laws in various scenarios. The presence of Pap Katri Yoga in the 9th, 11th, and 10th houses can result in conflicts, particularly issues with the mother-in-law. When the 10th house hosts a conjunction of Moon and Rahu, a harmonious relationship with the mother-in-law becomes unlikely.

The improper placement of the 4th house lord can lead to discomfort among family members, especially if pitru dosh is present and the girl’s Mangal (Mars) is weak. Adverse effects from Rahu affecting the Moon and key planets in the birth chart can cause constant criticism and disrespect between individuals.

Dominant tendencies in women may hinder their ability to become good mothers-in-law. Unfavorable Moon-Saturn and Moon-Ketu alignments can also affect this relationship dynamic. Previous-life actions like harassing widows, pregnant women, or theft can lead to ongoing conflicts between a woman and her mother-in-law.

Weak Mercury and Mars in a woman’s birth chart can also contribute to conflicts with in-laws, as can weak Mercury along with the influence of Rahu or Ketu on planets.

Additionally, jealousy arising from a weak second house in a girl’s marriage kundli can lead to strained relationships with the mother-in-law, characterized by lack of support and interference in her life.

9. Physical sickness for a long time after marriage

10. Poverty after marriage.

11. Extramarital affair/ relationship

Let’s concentrate on some More detailed Astrological facts:

(How to predict divorce in horoscope)

Planets Responsible for Divorce Or Separation In Astrology:

In my practical experience, I have seen, Sun, Mars, Saturn, Rahu & Ketu are prime planets to determine divorce. In the case of houses 8th & 12th house play a crucial role. Especially the 8th house and its lord.

Aspect	Information
Rahu and Saturn Conjunction in Lagna	May lead to separation and discord; humility and respect are vital for relationship preservation.
Venus in Krittika Nakshatra	Results in challenges for love and marriage; can indicate ego conflicts and potential divorce.
Handling Challenges	Understand your partner’s behavior, address ego issues, and offer appreciation and selfless love.

Sun and Divorce or Separation Yoga in Astrology:

This planet is generally hot in nature. If somehow Sun or its depositor is afflicted or ill-placed & connected to the 7th house it will bring some problems in marital life. Sun is also commanding in nature and very authoritative. Thus the problem begins with ego. If Sun is in the 1st or 7th house it will give divorce.

Only this is not enough to determine divorce. If the house where Sun is placed is not his inimical sign it will create conflicts or situations where partners will blame each other or will exchange hot words, but finally, divorce will not happen. If Venus is with the Sun within 7 degrees 30 minutes in some specific houses like the 2nd or 4th or 7th or 9th house, then divorce is a must.

To be definite to take any decision you should always judge D-9 in the case of marriage. If the Rashi chart and D-9 both indicate divorce, there is no doubt that the divorce will happen, otherwise, it will only create conflict. Association or aspect of benefic planets can reduce the possibility of divorce or can avoid it.

Mars as a Factor Behind Divorce Or Separation Yoga

In astrology Mars in the 2nd, 4th, 7th, 8th, & 12th house is called Mangal or Mangalik Dosha. Please read my article Mangal or Mangalik Dosha In Vedic Astrology to know more about it. Here I will only discuss how Mars or Mangal is responsible for the divorce. Mars is called the planet of quarrels or physical harassment. So, when Mars is present in Marriage-related houses, especially 1st or 7^th, it gives physical & verbal fights & quarrels in a family.

If only 7th house is involved then these kinds of quarrels will be happening between husband and wife only. But, if somehow afflicted 3rd house and 11th house and their lords are also involved then with this kind of yoga, especially in a female chart the girl will be physically assaulted by her father-in-law and mother-in-law also.

You can easily understand that Mars is a very high significator of divorce and maximum time ends up in court cases, but the D-9 chart should also indicate the same, otherwise, adverse situations will arise but, no official divorce would be there. Always remember a strong benefic planet connection can change the whole picture.

If Mars has formed any “Rajyoga” or is in his own house without the affliction of other malefic planets it can give a happy married life. Actually, Mars is the “Passion” within you, and if it is well placed it will make you very passionate about your partner & marital life.

Saturn and Divorce or Separation Yoga in Astrology:

This planet is also a very important planet in determining divorce. If Saturn is associated with marriage-related houses especially 1st or 7th it will make someone very suspicious in nature and they will always doubt their partners.

Saturn keeps a person always unsatisfied with his/her married life. Saturn is a very slow-moving planet so, it affects also very slowly and steadily. These kinds of partners always keep matters within themselves for a long time and all of a sudden with a very small issue they burst it all out. Saturn without fail gives a long-lasting effect.

Sometimes Saturn keeps the married couple away from each other throughout life, There may not be any official divorce but unofficially Saturn is the king of making misunderstandings and they slowly convert into quarrels, conflicts, and finally divorce. Saturn also gives impotency or incapability to bear a male child and this too sometimes becomes a reason behind the divorce.

Rahu as a Factor Behind Divorce Yoga Prediction:

Similar to the above-mentioned planets, Rahu also gives divorce if it is connected with any marriage-related houses, especially the 7th house. Rahu is called the planet of separation. Rahu is also called “the planet of smoke”. To know more about Rahu please read my article – Effects Of Rahu In Astrology – Mysterious Planet.

If it is somehow connected with the 7th house of sex, the person cannot be physically happy with one man or woman, he or she needs multiple partners, and he or she cannot be in one relationship for a long period of time. Rahu has a flirting type of personality. In most cases where Rahu is involved in Divorce, you will find that the physical reason is the main reason behind it. Many times it is due to extra-marital relationships.

Ketu as a Factor Behind Divorce Or Separation:

Whether Ketu gives divorce or not is a big controversy in Astrology. Some Astrologers opine that Ketu always gives divorce. Some say Ketu doesn’t give divorce at all, rather it gives objective to the native to get married, meaning, getting married only to grow the family or to give the family a new member. Now in my astrological practice so far, I have seen that both opinions are correct. Let me explain this further. Ketu wants to burn all material things into ashes.

It always tries to keep us away from all earthly matters. If it is present in the 7th house of marriage it will make the person reluctant about leading a married life. They are not that much concerned about their partners. Sex is also very limited if there is no other yoga in the horoscope that indicates an overtly sexual characteristic.

If there are such highly sexed characteristic indications in the horoscope the situation would be a bit different. In such a case the person will not be that much interested in family life, but will be maintaining an extramarital relationship or will be maintaining pre-marital relationships. If Ketu conjuncts Venus it can give very secret relationships even among relatives or close ones.

Whatever the situation could be, the native will be totally detached from his wife/husband and family life & will marry only for the future generation or to give the family a new member i.e. a baby. Most times after the baby is born the couple starts staying separately from each other.

Do not think that all these matters will happen only due to a planet’s position, some other combinations also need to be there but Ketu would be the prime planet. Things could be saved if there might be an influence of benefic planets like Jupiter, Moon, Mercury, and Venus.

Always remember if Ketu is associated with marriage-related houses, somehow it will reflect its “Karkatwa” or signification. So, the conclusion is Ketu doesn’t always give Divorce if it is not under bad influence.

Astrological Houses and Divorce/ Separation in Astrology:

(Divorce astrological predictions)

Important House	Indication
2nd House	Indicates relatives.
4th House	Indicates mental & domestic peace, happiness, and family. Malefic 4th house or 4th Lord leads to a lack of family happiness. A strong 4th house prevents divorce.
7th House	Rules marriage partner and marital relationship.
8th House	Governs the sex life (especially the sexual organs). Extramarital affairs can be predicted from its position.
12th House	Also represents sexual pleasure ( Bed pleasure, especially where the sexual acts happen). A negative 12th house suggests a poor sexual life. Negative 12th Lord represents a lack of interest in sexual life.

When any of the above-mentioned lords or planets are afflicted or under bad influence, the problem will arise as per subjects related to that house or planet. For example, if the 7th house is somehow afflicted, the problem will arise due to the partner.

Following are some Horoscope Predictive points due to which separations or divorce happens:

(Divorce yoga in horoscope)

When the lord of the ascendant and the 7th house from it or lord of the Moon sign or 7th house from it or lord of the Venus sign (the sign where Venus is deposited) or the 7th house from it are in “Sasthastaka” relation (means 6/8) a misunderstanding starts playing its role in between the couple, which leads to distrust and quarrel (As the 6th house is the enemy house, for this reason, such kind incidents reflect on their faces).

• Mutual Enemies’ Influence: If the mentioned planets are in their mutual enemy’s house, afflicted by malefic planets, or debilitated, such conditions can lead to separation.
• Both Planets and Houses Afflicted: If both planets and houses are under negative influence, separation or divorce is likely.
• Benefic Aspect or Conjunction: If the above combinations are aspected or conjoined with strong benefic planets, separation can be mitigated or a reunion might occur after divorce.
• 7th House Lord in 6th House: Placement of the 7th house lord in the 6th house can lead to divorce, but the influence of benefic planets can reduce separation chances.
• 7th Lord with 6th or 8th Lord: If the 7th lord is conjunct with the 6th or 8th lord and afflicted by malefic planets, divorce is possible.
• Saturn & Rahu Influence: If Saturn and Rahu are in the ascendant and linked to bad houses, separation is likely, and reconciliation is rare. Legal issues might also arise during divorce.

I am well aware of a fundamental truth, supported by real-life instances, that our actions have consequences—what we sow, we eventually reap. The timing and manifestation of these outcomes are determined by our “karma,” which wields its influence unmistakably. The notion of karma is undeniably present in our world.

Simplistic assumptions that merely matching the “Sun sign” and “Moon sign” of a couple suffices to predict their marital happiness are far from accurate. Life’s intricacies demand a nuanced approach to such assessments, given the multifaceted nature of existence.

Remedies Of Divorce Or Separation As Per Astrology

Reasons for Divorce	Actions to Avoid Divorce
Seventh Lord Retrograde with Malefic Aspect:	Caution against making decisions in anger. Avoid gossip and criticism about your spouse.
Sex-Starved Marriage:	Understand your partner’s desires, and avoid conflicts. Nurture deep sensual love with care and spice.
Challenges for Couples without Children:	Prioritize couples therapy over bringing a child into a strained relationship.
Importance of Relationship Over Child:	Conceiving a child won’t fix marital problems.
Understanding Planetary Messages:	Work through difficulties rather than give up.
Seventh Lord Placement in Sixth or Twelfth House:	Spend quality time together, communicate, and celebrate.
Cosmic Energy and Praises:	Praise and good deeds strengthen the relationship.
Venus’s Relationship with Rahu or Mars:	Embrace change and adapt to save the relationship.
Affliction to Jupiter with Rahu or Ketu:	Open-mindedness and acceptance counter negativity.

• Individualized Approach: Every individual and relationship is unique. Divorce triggers vary, and people’s temperaments differ. Addressing doubts, including concerns about infidelity, is essential.
• Horoscope Matching: Marrying after thorough horoscope matching and checking compatibility can prevent divorce. Understanding birth chart dynamics is crucial.
• Post-Marriage Counseling: Seeking post-marriage counseling with a proficient marriage astrologer can provide insight into the planetary positions causing issues, possibly leading to reconciliation.
• Understanding Life After Divorce: Recognizing the implications of divorce on personal and professional aspects is crucial. The “Stick and Carrot” approach, balancing challenges and rewards, has proven effective in saving marriages.
• Negative Impact of Divorce: Divorce negatively affects not only the 7th house (marriage), but also the 10th house (profession), and the 2nd house (fate). It can strain relationships with Jupiter, often regarded as a beneficial planet.
• Astro-Marriage Counseling: Strongly advocated as a valuable tool for a successful marriage. It fosters transparency, resolves doubts, and can be a worthwhile investment compared to marriage expenses or divorce aftermath.

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