Nine Of Wands
the first and best step is often to take a deep breath and calm down. Don’t let the things you are worried about overwhelm you. Take it one day at a time, one hour at a time, if you must. At least some of your worries will very likely turn out to be imaginary. Get very specific on what you are afraid of and pick it apart. What is the true likelihood of the worry actually happening? Comfort yourself, and if you need help, don’t hesitate to ask for it. Asking for help is the mark of a strong person. This is not the right time to have any changes on things surrounding you. You may feel frustrated or feel that someone is finding fault with you. There is pressure at work. You may feel restricted by a more influential person. There will be problems that make you feel frustrated or others may be frustrated with you. You should not be hot-tempered and try to stay calm. Try to control your emotions and clearly demonstrate your standing point in order to avoid being exploited by others. This means that right now you are in an intermission as far as the struggles you have been pursuing to get through to your initiatory phase, so you must regain your strength after resting and regrouping and speaking to others about what you should do. There are those in your life right now that have excellent advice to offer you. You must not be stubborn in this moment because you will benefit greatly from the help should you choose to accept it.
Points to a need for gentleness – both with yourself and with other people. Know your strengths. Remember that kindness and weakness are not the same thing. Show kindness as often as you can now. this means that you are going through a phase of feeling defeated because something has happened to make you feel that your defenses, the ones that you worked very hard on, have failed. You have burdened yourself with problems that are bigger then you can handle and you feel weak and incapable of holding them back. Why are you giving away your personal responsibility? The Nine of Wands exemplifies that you are in control of your life and your reality; therefore, nothing is happening to you that is out of your control. Right now you just feel like it is because it is easier then admitting that you need to start over again. It is challenging to go through this because you have already risked so much. it is important not to “beat yourself up,” if you find your mental, emotional, or physical strength waning. None of us can be perfectly strong all the time. Allow yourself to lean on someone or something positive, and know that your strength will return. Everything is a cycle.
Two Of Wands
It will be important for you to keep your balance in every way that you can – even to the mundane, boring things like eating right and getting enough rest. These things will be very helpful to you during this time. The 2 of Wands also often indicates a partnership with one other person. This can be business or personal, or both. Overall, there will be new opportunities for work. If you have already had a job interview, the possibility that you will get the job may be 50% up. Also, you will have to make decision on something, or get a business offer, or have an investment opportunity, or have a good business partner. If you have your own business, there will be a chance to expand it. You may get good advices about work which will be useful for you in the future. For finance, you will have a smooth cash flow. For love, you may not be quite confident about your relationship or even unsure of yourself. If you are single, there may be someone coming into your life but the relationship is still unclear. If things are feeling “out of balance” for you in general now, know that they are about to get substantially better. Keep your eyes on the prize that you’re looking for, metaphorically, and remain or get positive. There is a long road ahead of you and there is a need for you to take time to plan your course of action. Be certain of the direction you are taking and possible hurdles that will need to be overcome. Know that the path you are on right now is one that is good for you but without your own input or direction you will easily find your way off course.
Reverse is indicateing difficulties in making a decision, possibly due to the fear of making the wrong choice. .indicate a pleasant surprised headed your way soon. Take the time to think positively, and to be grateful for the gifts that life is bringing you. Allow yourself to take joy and pleasure in the little things. It is saying Sometimes what you feel is not the total reality of the situation. Still, sometimes you have to make a change and try new things in order to enjoy life. Weigh the balance carefully if you are considering taking a risk and/or making big changes in your life. You are likely to be feeling unsure or lacking confidence in your abilities. Wrong choices or actions of irresponsibility are cause to miss out on opportunities that you are qualified for. Considering taking responsible steps to get yourself back on track. Implement schedules for a regular daily routine for work, exercise, or finances. In relationships you are likely to be experiencing distance or a lack of reciprocation from a partner.