Extra Marital/ illicit/ Relation/ Affair Yogas In Horoscope

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1. Ngathingkhui Ronra Shimray says:

   Sir, Please explain in my email ID. Thank you.

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2. Tama says:

   Date of birth 1st February 1981
   Time 12:15pm at night
   Please about extramarital

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3. Sandip baa says:

   I have to know my girlfriend had in relationship with others before i met her. next year we will marry, my girlfriend’s name is Sanjita kullu please see her past time and please tell me

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   • Astrologer Shankar Bhattacharjee says:

     Dear Sandeep,
     Your question is not clear to me. You already know her past, and you are asking about her past? This is very confusing. Please ask your question clearly and more elaborately so that i others who are following this blog can understand that. If your question is related to her future extra-marital affair, then you can mention that in your question. You have not mentioned yours and your girl friend’s birth detail here also. Please let me know that also so that I can judge both of your horoscope and predict. But still till the time you can take the help of this article and can check.

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4. Dr. Shankar Bhattacharjee says:

   both of your charts should be examined, only your chart is not enough to give answers dear…

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5. somya says:

   Sir my DOB is 17jan1974 & time is 9:25
   PM Place is Delhi. I would like to know if my chances of extra martial relation and about my future. Pl give me some conclusion.

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   • Pratanu Chowdhury says:

     My date of birth is 7/05/1998 and time is 8:20 am, and my place of birth is Durgapur, West Bengal.
     I want to know when I will get a good job, wether I can go for management? And when will I get married? Wether it will be a love marriage or arranged marriage?

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   • ankita says:

     sir my dob is 20 june 1968 & time is 5:30 pm.m, birthplace is ahmedabad. i m widow, and i love one person who is married, what can i do, is he love me seriously, and help me forever

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6. Ravishankar says:

   My DOB is 15/7/1967 4.30 AM Bangalore. I want to know why I have more sex drive and my wife is very weak in sex. Do I have Ex Marital relation in my horoscope.

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7. Dr. Sankar Bhattacharjee says:

   Dear Manmohan,
   As an astrologer I can only guide you, when your
   question will be clear to me, please ask your question clearly, what you
   actually want to know? I will obviously guide you.May God Bless You

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8. Dr. Sankar Bhattacharjee says:

   You have mentioned in your question about retrograded planets and their effects on your extramarital relationship. Here one thing should be very clear to you that – retrograde planet doesn’t always mean that – it would give bad result. It may be sometimes bad and sometimes good, that again depends upon the “Nakshatra, depositor and aspect factors of the planet. in one word retrograde planets connects your life with your “Past Karma”. If any retrograde planet is connected with any of your “relation giving” houses (5th, 7th, 8th, 11th house) in your horoscope so the relationships will keep coming in their dasa, antardasa or when the “gochar” transit time will come or related planet’s dasa timing. Now here planetary strength will come into picture if the retrograde planet is associated with many planets. Who is more strong and whose association is more prominent in that period the relationship will come. 5th house and 8th house combination with supported by other extramarital yoga (i have mentioned in my article) giving combination – gives multiple relationships, because one relationship doesn’t stay for long period of time, the native lose interest very easily. 8th house is also the house of our secret genital part, in case of male or female both, but seventh house will also come into the picture when in case of female (for depth analysis to find-out the actual reason, because nothing happens in this world without a reason). That’s the reason 8th house is so important house to get the indication of extramarital or illicit relationship.

   The 12th house is the house of Bed pleasure. This house is important for both marital happiness and to judge extramarital affair or illicit relationship. In your case this extramarital relation has already happened. So, it may happen again or may not also. Your horoscope will be telling you that clearly.

   In your horoscope see the relation between Rahu-Venus and other relationship giving houses as i have mentioned above. The transit of the associated planets, see if there any connection in between them or not, in your case especially Rahu and Venus. Venus is in 7th with mars and rahu is in 8th house giving argala or planetary intervention on the 7th house planets, further Mars and enus both are under control of “Hasta Nakshtra” and Rahu is in “Swati” nakshatra”, These combinations are saying a lot of things about your life. Your Horoscope should be judged thoroughly, with depth analysis. Because so many things are there in your chart – in your life, that I cannot discuss here publicly, because, whatever I will discuss here thousands of people will be reading the same throughout the whole world. I think you do not want also that.

   If you really want to know that – you will be further in any relationship or not, just follow the above procedure I mentioned, you will get your answer. But dear, always remember that – nothing happens in this world without a reason. If you really want to come out of this stage at first you have to find out that exact reason for all these, and that answer you will get from your horoscope. You are doing yoga and other exercises, that’s good, but, if there is a yoga in your chart so, that will definitely happen, and the best part of that is – you will be ready for that mentally and physically that time. Now you can ask me – isn’t there any remedy for that? Yes certainly the remedy is there, the destiny is really at your hand, you can change it at any point of time you want, but only you have to know the procedure. First – look for the actual reason, which is clearly indicated in your horoscope, then apply the special remedy which will be fully personalized for you or that reason, then when the time will come, you will be seeing there is no effect on you of all those. This is the magic of that remedy. Try to find out the reason first from your horoscope only and let me know, I will obviously guide you properly.

   Do not become depressed or broke dear, this is just the part of life, but not the heart of life. Find out the reason and get out of this, the life could be so beautiful & charming, just enjoy it with full of your heart.

   May God Bless You Dear

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9. Savitri_Devi_GuruBhakt says:

   Sir. Isn’t cheating over husband, a sin? So wouldn’t a cheating wife repent for her sin in her next birth according to karma? And what does a woman go through for cheating her husband? Nothing?

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10. Savitri_Devi_GuruBhakt says:

    Sir, I need your guidance. What’s morally right or wrong for me? I deeply believe in the value of chastity and for that ready to preserve myself as well. But, these days I see women involved in multiple sexual affairs before marriage, which scares me off. I strictly do not want a wife who had slept with anyone else…but what if I don’t get one? So, the question is, should I let myself loose and bang on whoever comes my way, cause that seems morally wrong to me. And also, you said that karma brings the partner you deserve but what I see these days is that , there are many successful guys who never had affair prior to their marriage yet they get wives who had multiple affairs and continue to have so even after marriage, in some cases, even when they are sexually fully compatible.
    Also, the thought process has changed upside down. People used to rarely have pre marital affairs just one and a half decade ago but now it has become culture in metropolitan cities, this has resulted in an increasing number of cheating wives than ever before(if you look at the court cases) ….is it due to their karma? Or is it that time and things have changed big time? Please clarify the concept of karma revolving around these things. And also, as far as I know, chaste women( or one man women) are highly regarded and revered in Hinduism and are also held in high esteem in jyotish. Don’t they?

    I am ready to be a one woman man but only if I get a chaste , one man woman myself.
    This is where I need your guidance, what should I do? Ease my heart up, I feel tensed.

    My birth details: Piyush
    11/04/1995
    6:52 AM
    katihar

    Please clarify things up for me. What should I do? And why do I get so tense and perplexed unnecessarily?

    Guide me, gurudev. I need guidance.

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    • Neel Dovkar says:

      Piyush, you have Ketu in 1st house and Rahu in 7th house .
      This is one such placement where there is the possibility of you involving in sexual/romantic relationship even before marriage.There is also the possibility that after getting married,you might also cheat due to this placement.
      However, you have got to understand that as Rahu and Ketu are karmic in nature your would be spouse might have had a relationship even before marrying you .It could be something as simple as a childhood puppy love or teenage romance or a full on deep sexual relationship.She may have even been a femme fatale.But the thing is you can also be a stud/player if that is what you want.

      Now, one of the reasons why you might not involve in romance right now because , the 7th lord venus is in the Brahmin nakshatra of Purvabadrapada and is also conjunct saturn which restricts you from involving in sexual relationship right now.
      However, this by itself is a problem.Venus getting conjunct saturn may make the native cheat on his spouse.This means you may cheat on your wife after you get married , because saturn is a cold planet which dries venus up and your would be spouse can be quiet unromantic and cold in love , due to which you might cheat on her. This can also go the other way as she might cheat on you because you can also be quite reluctant to express your emotions.

      So, as you see the thing which is preventing you from not involving in relationship right now might in itself make you cheat on your spouse in the future.

      Now let us go to the next step of analysis:-

      In Navamsa , your Rahu is in 3rd house and Ketu is in 9th house.
      This placement in navamsa indicates that you will always do some romantic gesture like booking tickets to the movies or buying her some nice gifts, but she might never be happy or satisfied with what you do. This is the karmic nature of rahu 3 in D-9. However never let it faze you into extramarital affair as the repercussions will be heavy.

      Heavy repercussion:-
      In Navamsa chart saturn is in the nakshatra of rohini. Whenever saturn is in rohini, both the native and the spouse can have a lot of sex between themselves, but if any one of you cheat , the other will get to know by some way or the other and things will end up real bad.Added to this the rahu ketu in 7-1 axis will only add fuel to fire.

      Some important points to know:-

      Your moon is in Ashlesha nakshatra, and ashlesha people tend to have high sex drive but are very committed in relationship, and will always do anything and everything to keep their loved ones happy.

      Your moon is in the 5th house in D-9 and this will make you quite lustful in nature but not necessarily promiscuous .This moon also indicates that you will actually find who you truly are on the inside only after having lots of sex with your wife ( Reminder: “your wife” not some random hoe). This moon also shows that your desire is to marry a girl who can mother you.

      Your jupiter is in 3rd house in D-9 due to which you and your spouse will travel quite extensively on pilgrimage to faraway temples. This indicates that one of you or both of you are religious.From the already known information I can say that you are religious.Let us pray that your would be spouse is also religious.

      Venus is in 6th house of Navamsa due to which you might not be able to have good sex with your wife as she will not like it, and it can even irritate her.This placement of venus also shows that you can have a mistress for yourself. Added to it you will have a lot of fight with your spouse because of the fact that she isn’t interested in having sex.
      The best remedy to this is to take your spouse on foreign trips to cool her up.Then you can get what you want.

      Good points by which you may not cheat on your future spouse:-

      Your ascendant is in Bharani nakshatra which is the most loyal nakshatra.
      Your navamsa ascendant is in Scorpio and these people always tend to stay in a long committed relationship.
      Saturn is in the 7th house of navamsa which will make both you and your spouse committed in the relationship.
      Venus is in Bharani nakshatra in navamsa chart, So both you and your wife will be very loyal.

      Story like reasoning of why you might cheat:-

      You would love to take good care of your spouse by buying her nice stuff but she might not really be happy with it ( rahu 3 in D-9) , well in fact she might even be cold toward you (venus -saturn conjunct in D-1). This will frustrate you.You will also want to have a lot of sex with her ( rahu 7 in D-1+ moon in 5th D-9 + moon in ashlesha D-1).But she might not like it and her health might not be good and you might end up fighting with her and maybe have an affair with someone ( venus in 6th in D-9) .She will get to know (saturn in Rohini in D-9) and all hell will break loose.

      Advice:-

      Marry late as Saturn is in 7th house of D-9 and rahu is in 7th house of D-1.
      Wait for marriage at least till you are 28 , when your first saturn return will take place.This will help you mature more, and will also increase the chance of you getting a dharmic and chaste spouse.

      If you do get married to a girl who can mother you then see to it that she isn’t nagging you too much.

      I do see a dhan yoga in your chart and I believe you are from at least an upper middle class family.If not, then still it isn’t any problem.

      Saturn is in its mulatrikon sign of Aquarius in the strongest of uppachya 11th house.This is extremely good for gains.

      Rahu is in 7th house and it is very good for doing your own business and also promises lots of foreign travel.

      Venus is in its friendly sign of aquarius in 11th house.This is extremely beneficial and as soon as you get married. Your profits/ salary will increase manifold.

      So, work hard on your career right, now and after you get married you can travel every 3 months to a foreign country with your wife and there will never have to be a fight.And there also won’t be any cheating.

      Answer to your question:-

      The moral dilemma of yours is quite understandable.I salute you for being extremely logical in your thinking and raising a good question.

      The word chastity means devoted.So a chaste wife means a wife who is completely loyal and devoted to her husband.
      Over the years this word has been corrupted and is now being considered as an equivalent to virginity, when in fact virginity and chastity are two different things.

      Remember you can get a virgin woman but it doesn’t guarantee that she will be chaste.
      Then there is the possibility of marrying a non virgin who will be completely devoted to you.
      But from real life observation,one can safely say that there is always a higher chance of a non virgin being unchaste than a virgin being unchaste after marriage.

      Yes chaste woman , especially the ones who were virgin and then were chaste were highly revered in both Hinduism and jyotish. Moreover, in vedic times chastity also meant that the wife had sex only to have children.
      So,chastity is not just loyalty and devotion but also there exists a lack of sex for pleasure.
      Yup! This was the same time when kamasutra was being written.

      Be careful of what you desire for and if you want both virgin and chaste then go for it.There is nothing wrong with that , but just set your priority straight that you want to marry a virgin woman who will be loyal and devoted to you yet will also want to have a lot of intercourse with you.

      Now, whether the girl you marry will be both chaste and virgin or either or neither can be found only after looking at her chart and by also talking to her and and finding what her values and principles are.
      So,marry a girl after checking her chart completely and see to it that the promise of a long lasting beautiful marriage exists in her chart.

      In your chart it can be found that if you want to be a stud now then you can be one.I don’t know how it will affect your future marriage prospects but it is your life,you’ve got to make your choice.

      But don’t involve in an affair after marriage as saturn in Rohini in D-9 will punish you.This is also applicable if you choose to get into a relationship. Just never ever cheat man.

      By the way your sun is vargottama in Pisces in the 12th house in your birth chart . This shows that one of your soul purpose is to most definitely enjoy a lot of bed pleasure. Just be patient.

      Final words of wisdom:-

      Whenever your mind gets bugged that a lot of people are enjoying in pre-marital relationship just remember that only half our population is intelligent and you are a part of it.

      Moreover, I think it is not just metros,but even small towns and villages.With current technology a lot of shit happens.

      It would be best if you try changing your worldview and paradigms.
      If you think a lot of youth are having pre- marital sex then you will run into that kind of people.
      If you think a lot of people are having affairs nowadays then you will run into that kind of people.

      The universe creates what our mind envisions.

      So,learn to focus your mind with the help of dangerous discipline.

      Cheers and goodbye.

      P.S : Whenever you feel low just listen to the song “One Day” by Matisyahu.

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11. Dr. Sankar Bhattacharjee says:

    Dear Rahul,
    First of all thank you for your appreciation.

    Everybody have their own life and everybody has the right to live life as they want without directly harming any other person. It is against my principle to discuss about anybody’s very personal matter without his/her permission. So, I am sorry dear.

    May God Bless You

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12. Savitri_Devi_GuruBhakt says:

    Sir, is it possible to know whether a person had pre marital sexual relationship by looking at their horoscope? Please reply. And tell that for both genders.

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13. Poonam says:

    Sir my DOB is 08 Mar 1974 & time is )9:19 AM Place is Ujjain (M.P) I would like to know of my chances of extra martial relation and about my future. Pl give me some conclusion.

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14. kavitha says:

    Hi sir,
    Can u pls tell me will my daughter have chances for extra marital affair in future.
    Dob: 27/11/2015
    Time: 12.32 p.m
    Place: chennai.

    Pls help me sir….

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    • Eswari Pavani says:

      Namaste Guruji, me and husband always had misunderstandings. He is very stubborn and don’t want to listen anyone and makes me cry everyday because of his decisions.i really fed up with him.we have a 13 .yrs old boy. Really I want to walk away from his life. My DOB is on Oct 24th 1974. Do I have a chance of a good and understanding person in my life as a second chance.

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      • Dr Shankar Bhattacharjee says:

        I am really sorry to know all these what is happening with you. In case of any marital related matters (after marriage) two of your (you and your husband) horoscopes are very important to judge to come to any conclusion. Draw both of your horoscopes and judge according to the rules I mention in this article – https://astrosanhita.com/divorce-or-separation-in-astrology-horoscope-prediction/, if something is unclear to you… you can ask me…

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15. Ankur Agrawal says:

    please let me know about the future of my married life and relationship as my wife wanna stay away from me, angry, don’t need me in her life,
    i am too much disturbed .

    we husband n wife are getting away from each other due to misunderstanding, she is too much angry with me that she don’t want to talk me and gone away from me and presently doing Job in Gurgaon.
    Presently she dont need me in her life.

    she is not listening to her parents or any body else

    my wife
    Parul Agrawal
    DOB 22/11/1985
    7.35 am
    MATHURA UTTAR PRADESH, .
    he is getting away saying mismatch in our mind set
    please help.

    ANKUR AGRAWAL ; 24/02/1983, MATHURA , 06;50 pm , i am presently in Faridabad Haryana

    when we will get legally seperated.

    please suggest suitable wayout.

    Ankur

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    • John Mathew says:

      Dear Ankur,

      I can understand the feelings you are going through. I am a palmist & its equally powerful science of understanding what’s happened in past & also predicting future events. If you can send your palm photos & if possible your wife’s as well, I can try to predict your future. Pl note that I will not charge anything for this. This is purely out of social service.
      Dear Sankar,

      Sorry for barging into your area. The motive is just social service as you are doing.

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16. Payal says:

    Hi

    My DOB is 12/09/1980
    And place of birth is Ahmedabad
    And time of birth is 5.20 am
    I had an extra marital affair with a married man for more than 2 years. Once his wife found out about the affair he left me. I am depressed and broken from inside. I feel like a failure. My husband also knows about the break up and affair. I also fell pregnant to this other man in jan 2015 but I went for abortion. I feel devastated. I don’t want to get into any extra marital affair in future. Do you think from my horoscope that I will get into this sort of thing again? Will my marriage work out? I loved the other man but he cheated me by leaving me when his wife found out. I feel like a loser already.

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17. paddu says:

    querry: how my (male)horoscope 100% resembles with female horoscope ? confirms the illicit relation before marriage as per the rule no 7 under the head of other combinations for ililcit sex relationship ,how it possible

    for educative purpose i am asking ,pl reply sir

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18. dinesh says:

    very nice article.

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19. Mitul Patel says:

    Hi Dr. Sankar Bhattacharjee

    Me and my wife are living separate from 2010 and has file case of divorce since 2010 and in 2014, januray with mutual understanding we live together and in May 2014 we had fight and she left my house and have case reopen in high court pls suggest me if my wife has an affair with other person or not

    Her Date is :

    Toral Shah
    DOB : 26-10-1984
    Time : 03.10 am
    Place : Rajkot

    I request you to pls help me out as we have a baby of 6 years, sometimes i thought that my wife has illegal affair and all relation with other person
    though she always telling lie if something caught what she not told to me.

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    • Savitri_Devi_GuruBhakt says:

      Hire a private detective and set him over her. There’s no distinction of right and wrong.

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20. Krupa says:

    Dear Sir,

    This is an urgent requirement as I am having a lot of problems in my marriage life. Kindly match our Kundli and let me know if my husband is having an extra marital affair as he keeps wanting divorce and my money.

    His details – Chethan Bangera S
    DOB – 28/08/1983 Time – 12:02 PM
    Place – Mangalore

    My details – B G Krupa
    DOB – 15/09/1987 Time – 5:20 PM
    Place – Bangalore

    Marriage date – 02/12/2012.

    I am really disturbed and going into depression. He has given me 2 months to make this marriage work from my side, failing which he wants divorce. Pleaee HELP.
    Thanks you.

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    • Astrologer Shankar Bhattacharjee says:

      Read my article on – Divorce or Separation in Horoscope – Astrology. Also you can read this example chart of Divorce

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